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When
Bhumika Shrestha was little she loved to dress up in her mother’s clothes and
wear her sister’s lipstick. Her parents did not see a problem in their son
wanting to dress-up. He was just a little kid after all. But Bhumika, then
called Kailash, didn't grow out of it. When she became a teenager she knew for
sure that she didn’t want to be a boy anymore, but a lady.
“My family
gave me a boy’s name, Kailash. I didn’t like it because when I grew up my
feelings and my way of thinking was totally a woman. I didn’t know why, but I
felt like a girl,” says Bhumika Shrestha.
Identity
Last year
the Nepalese government announced it would be the first country to include a
third gender in its national census. It was a landmark announcement that
citizens no longer had to conform to either the male or female box on the
questionnaire. But unfortunately, to date this census has not resulted in a
clear count of transgender people in Nepal.
The Blue
Diamond Society (BDS), an organization for the LGBT community, has nearly
400,000 officially registered members.
Since the
organization was founded in 2001 by Sunil Pant, it has been extremely
successful in advocating the rights of the community.
Bhumika
Shrestha is an example of this success. From being taunted by her community
when she was younger, she is now an avid spokesperson for the BDS, and the
country’s first transgender politician.
“In Nepali
society, especially in my village, people do not understand. When I walk
around, people look at me and start laughing,” Bhumika explains how it wasn’t
easy for her to grow up in a small village.
Society
She felt
like she was the only one who did not feel comfortable in the body she was born
in. But it all changed when Bhumika was approached on the street by a BDS
member, who asked her to come to their office.
“I was
sixteen,” she remembers, “and for the first time in my life I felt I wasn’t
alone anymore. There are other transgender people too.”
Bhumika
started regularly visiting the BDS office. She gained confidence through
talking to others who equally did not fit within the tight framework of Nepal’s
society.
Her next
bold step was to participate in the first Miss Pink Pageant, a beauty contest
especially for third gender people. She won.
Politics
Winning the
first Miss Pink Pageant put the country's spotlights on Bhumika and the
transgender community in Nepal.
“It was
madness after I won the contest. It seemed like every journalist in Nepal
wanted to speak to me,” she says.
Bhumika’s
new-found stardom launched her political career. Out of 50 candidates, she was
elected as a new member of Nepal’s Congress Party to represent minorities.
In the
run-up to her election as Miss Pink, Bhumika released a statement on the
problems with ID card registration for transgender people.
Campaigning
by Bhumika and the BDS led to a court decision in 2007 that third genders
should be allowed to specify their sexuality on their ID card. But
unfortunately implementing this at government offices has been difficult.
Having an
ID card that still shows her birth name, Kailash, can get Bhumika in a lot of
trouble when she travels. But in Nepal you also depend on the card when you
want to buy a house or apply for a job. When government officials see a male
identity card, but a woman is standing in front of them, it’s confusing.
Like many
court rulings in the small country wedged between two giants, China and India,
this one has not yet been implemented, leaving Bhumika and other transgender
people having to explain themselves over and over again.
Though the
LGBT movement has come a long way since independence, politicians in Nepal are
taking their time.
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